When You Want To Deepen Your Prayer Life But Don’t Know How

Paul says in Romans 7:15, “I don’t really understand myself, for I want to do what is right, but I don’t do it. Instead, I do what I hate.” If we’re honest, many of us know exactly what he means.

We tell ourselves we’re going to spend more time with God. We plan to wake up earlier, pray, read His Word, and reflect on His love. We know it makes a difference. And yet, some days we follow through… and other days we don’t.

So why is that?

On our own, we tend to drift back to what is comfortable. We avoid what feels difficult, even when we know it’s good for us. But God never intended for us to do this alone. In His goodness and love, He gave us the Holy Spirit to help us. The Holy Spirit guides us, strengthens us, and shapes us to look more like Christ. Jesus talks about this promise in John 14:15–31.

And this is where prayer becomes so important.

Prayer isn’t about having the right words. It’s simply a conversation with God. It doesn’t have to be long or polished. God already knows your heart. He invites you to come to Him just as you are.

When we ask Him to help us grow, He responds.

When we ask Him to help us become more like Christ, He works in us.

When we ask Him to draw us closer, He meets us there.

Even something as simple as asking Him to help you wake up and spend time with Him can become a powerful step of faith.

God is not distant. He is present. He is listening. And He is ready to help you take the next step.

So today, why not start with a simple prayer and see what He does next.